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There are times when you run into the same person again, and times when it ends that day.
It’s not the score difference. It’s the small things done after it’s over that make the difference.
01Before breaking up
- Greetings to the person who invited me"Thanks to you, I played well"—just one word is enough.
- Also to the caddieHe is the person who walked with me for four hours.
- A word to open the nextSomething like "I'll see you again next time."
Surprisingly, few people greet the caddie. However, everyone who played together sees this.
That is where your attitude toward people is revealed.
02That evening or the next day
A quick message is all it takes.
- I had a great time today. Thank you.
- If you took a photo, send it together
- If you were invited, settle the expenses on the same day.
Don't write too much. Two lines are enough.
Since most people don't do it, just doing it makes it memorable.
03The photo is bigger than I thought.
It is a good idea to take one or two photos during the round.
- Four people per tee box
- A beautiful landscape photo
- If someone had made a par or a birdie, that scene
When I send it after it's over, I think, "They really take care of me."
Our group has a photo gallery, so you can upload it to the monthly meeting album.
Any member can upload, and rounds played with close friends
You can create your own album in the rounding section among yourselves.
04How to make the following
When you look at people whose relationships continue, there is something in common.
- If you received it, you pay it back.If you were invited, I'll call you next time.
- Contact firstThe one who says, "Let's go sometime next month," builds the relationship.
- Keep your promiseTime, cost, and words—everything.
- I don't nag too hard.If you're busy, do it next time. That actually creates a next time.
The key is to repay what you receive. If you keep hitting back, you will naturally drift apart.
05Please keep a record
In a place like ours where several years' worth accumulates, this becomes an asset.
- Score Honestly ([[LINK:L40]] Part)
- One line about what I learned that day
- People I was close with
If I look back a few years from now, I can see how I have changed.
And the records of playing with the people you played with become a story in themselves.
06Concluding Episode 50
Thank you for reading this far. I divided the story into five parts.
| Part 1 | Not collapsing on the field |
|---|---|
| Part 2 | Keeping your score around the green |
| Part 3 | Practice for those who play once a week |
| Part 4 | Create a score with selection |
| Part 5 | Become someone people want to play with |
I kept saying the same thing while writing 50 pieces.
Eliminate the worst. It is better to avoid a major disaster than to hit well to protect your score.
Give up your greed. In the rough, in the bunker, on the par 5.
One thing at a time. Don't try to fix your swing during a round.
And one last one.
Golf is not a sport played alone.
There are people who walk with me for four hours, and that time lasts longer than the score.
I hope you become someone people want to play with rather than someone who plays well.
Then the opportunities to hit increase, and as opportunities increase, skills naturally follow.
Please look again starting from [[LINK:L01]] for the necessary section.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask in the field.
See you at the next monthly meeting.
